In Part 1, we discussed the difference between loving and being in love with someone. We saw that just loving someone had a noble, selfless, almost logical quality to it. Being in love had a more emotional and selfish quality – a person harbours a hope that they too can get – and be the source of – happiness.
But loving without falling in love isn’t necessarily ‘superior’ unless you aren’t already in a relationship, and have no intention of getting into one.
IF you do wish to pursue, are already in, or wish to save one, then you need to have a BALANCE of both. Here’s why.